I dated a lady who is five years older than me. I am 29 years old and we met during our service year. We resided in the same lodge and we got very close.
This lady is everything a man desires. She is highly endowed, Faithful, loving, Sincere and very BEAUTIFUL!.
Towards the end of our service year this lady’s love for me grew completely beyond the ordinary even to the extent that she was ready to get pregnant for me. She told me this herself. She further said she wants my baby as a remembrance of our love even if we don’t come across each other in life again.
My problem now is that I am not comfortable marrying this lady for obvious reasons. She is far too older than me. Not that I don’t have feelings for her but in the course of our relationship I never promised her marriage directly or indirectly.
About two months ago I did my fathers funeral and and she travelled a six hour journey just to attend and be with me. We spent three nights together. My mother is not approving of our relationship much less of marriage because she says this lady is older than me. I tried to lie to her that she is twenty-seven, but my mother was not fooled.
I have told this girl of mine that my family would not support our union but she desires to get pregnant for me and be the father of her first child.
Please advise me on what to do. Should I oblige her or try to disconnect her from my life. which do you think is wiser.